Saturday, April 24, 2010

on marlity

“The true hypocrite is the one who ceases to perceive his deception, the one who lies with sincerity” - Andre Gide

I've recently been obsessed with truth and lies, hypocrisy and indecency. It's interesting that all my life I thought that questions of science and economics are the only real deep ones worth pondering but I've neglected such basic ones about the human being and the society.
Why everyone seems to be living a double life and is happy with it? What if I chose to be like them? What if I gave up my freedom and became a slave in a world of paradoxes?
I find myself asking "does ethics have a place in my world-view?" and the answer is of course yes. I don't believe that ethics come from religion or parents or anywhere. Absolute morality preached by religion and taught by parents doesn't make sense to me. But I do believe in ethics based on reasoning, secular moral philosophy and legal theory. Therefore,I believe that each of us understands the meaning of right and wrong and understand that telling a lie is immoral. It is also immoral to cheat,steal,break promises,be cruel or kill. That is why I can't be happy and do any of these at the same time.
The beauty of secular ethics is in that you don't need fear of hell or watchful eyes of parents to enforce it. It's automatically with you and urges you to self-discipline. In other words, unlike what we have been taught, you shouldn't be moral because you are afraid to be punished. But you should hold values that have been proven to be right "over historical time through a consensus of reasoning, of sober discussion, argument, legal theory, political and moral philosophy" as Richard Dawkins puts it. These are old and modern values that we need to hold to be functioning members of society who deserve respect.


Monday, January 12, 2009

eject...
eject again...reloading...
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It's funny how amusing a remote control can be when the movie finishes and silence starts.

Friday, January 02, 2009

I just watched 'Vicky Cristina Barcelona', a new movie directed by Woody Allen. It was fun specially in its approach in trying to define life and love. Just like the label said it was "Woody Allen's funny and open-minded celebration of love in all its configurations."
Which brings me to this question: Can love be celebrated provided that one keeps an open mind? After all,what society has defined as love for us may not be love at all...

Friday, December 26, 2008

Have you ever done something so stupid and careless that even remembering that you have done it hurts? It has happened for me. Not very often fortunately and usually in trivial matters. But I have made some really odd mistakes a couple of times. I don't think I can call them mistakes though. I consider myself an analytical person. Whenever I want to make a decision or take action about a serious matter I give every detail a good thought, consider the consequences and plot a strategy. Sometimes however, I completely neglect all the calculations and decide to do only what makes me feel good. This is the worst part. Knowing that you are doing something stupid and irresponsible and still doing it. I guess I let my desires get the better of me sometimes specially when it's about relationships or spending money. The problem is the magic of this childish pleasure goes away very soon and I'm left in a mess that I knew would happen from the beginning. Then I'll have to disengage and pull out and never think about it again. Because sometimes even thinking about the mindless things you have done brings a feeling of shame. Note that it's not regret or sadness. It's just only shame from being so stupid and naive. When I imagine myself doing childish things I just feel awkward. That's when I sing to myself loudly to make the thoughts go away!

Saturday, December 20, 2008

Love is ...

Like life. It eventually ends at some point. Usually in pain.

P.S: Smart's quote from Russel on my last post was inspiring.

Thursday, December 18, 2008

Love is...

Like pubic hair. It is natural but letting it grow brings you embarrassment! Except in the 60s when it was fashionable!

Monday, December 15, 2008

Love is....

Like supernatural beliefs. It's not true but makes a fool's life less miserable.